Q97.1 On-Air DJs Back to Q97.1 Homepage Hanna love your music . Hanna love you kimmy. Yesenia I need advice, I am 29 my boyfriend is 25 we live together and been together officially like a year in a half. Before we started dating we had convos about sex and I told him how important it was to me to get oral sex that I love it and it help me orgasim. Well he always avoided the question or didn’t want to talk about it. I finally made him talk about it & he express to me how he has issues with putting anything in his mouth, not even his fingers anything that isn’t food. He has done it like a few times in the beginning of our relationship because I would be angry about it but then I felt like I was forcing him so I let it go and he hasn’t even tired ever since. I am well clean down there so I know that’s not the problem. I never ever had an issue with a man doing oral to me so this is new to me. On the other hand he rarely ever let’s me do oral to him. He will be like u don’t have to, I believe it’s because he thinks I would want it back. Anyway I tired everything and nothing I don’t know what to do at this point, can I get some advice? Paola When it comes to getting intimate you both have to be comfortable with what is about to get done you know… maybe instead of telling him what you want done explore around with toys, creams, maybe a little new positions that can help you orgasam Michael bravo Don’t pressure him into doing things he doesn’t want. Co tongue on doing that and your nothing more than a selfish controlling person to where he’ll end up breaking it off. You don’t need oral to be intimate there are other things than can be as pleasurable Goodbye I hope you’re not talking about the genetilia stuck in a metal nuts that happened about 4 or 5 years ago. I was involved. I was on call that night and we tried everything. Finally we called the fire department and FD managed to cut the nuts off. They got it out but his P**** can’t be save. It’s been strangulated for 10 hours. All blood circulation was cut off towards the tip/ distal part of his shaft. Yep.. Don’t do it, no matter how tempting it is. A. Gonzalez hi I was just listening in the car radio about a woman whose husband brought a female friend home and hangs out with his female friend without his wife… Honestly no offense Greg and Dre but sometimes guys can be really stupid and you have to show them exactly what they’re doing to you by doing it to them. maybe she should try bringing home a male friend talking about him all day making plans with him and telling her husband that if they were to break up that she would pursue him then he’ll realize what an ass he is for putting her through that and putting some strange female above his family..I mean what kind of woman goes to a man’s home who already has a family has dinner with them and still pursues him. sounds like one of those women who get off on destroying families. she could try that but honestly she deserves better and so do her kids let him see what the other side of the grass is really like and even if she did all that just to show him why would she want him back why would you want a man who would risk everything just for somebody with no kids or somebody else’s kids instead of being with a woman who has your kids. if you look at it from a woman’s point of view he’s not worth wasting any more of your time. she deserves better. I hope she makes the right choice. George Gonzalez Can I get a shoutout song to my girlfriend my name is George and can you dedicate this song to Emily Lucas the song I want you is white inversion by post Malone lisa hey guys I listen to you in the morning and really need some advice. I have been together with my husband for 10 years. 6 married. We have one son who is 4. My husband currently lives in Texas while I am here finishing up my graduate program and my son lives with me. After I finish school my goal was to move with him. That being said- this past weekend he told me he kissed a co-worker at his job. I am hurt and at this point – have all these questions. I asked if he wants to leave me and he says he does not. He said he is lonely and knows what he did was wrong but does admit he has chemistry with this person and feels horrible because I am his wife. He said he may or may not date her and I did state I would leave him if that were to happen. My question is: He kissed her and did not have sex with her so should I leave him, does kissing mean cheating completely? and the other woman in the picture should I call her? I still am in love with him, but at this point I just don’t know what to do. When he intentionally told me he kissed her he lied because he said he only talked to her but than later he confused and said he kissed her, so I feel like I am losing trust for him, since I got him in a lie. Please Help I know you and the 97.1 Listeners can help me with some great advice. Thanks Lisa Michael bravo He did cheat but He told you what he did and feels bad about it. Other guys would keep it a secret. He’s man enough to tell you and shows He respects you. Now long distance relationships are extremely hard. What you both need to do is get some therapy because he feels he doesn’t have anyone to be with physically and needs that. If you were there with him I doubt he would’ve done that. Get therapy and continue on talking brittany Even if he just kissed her, that doesnt mean deep inside he doesnt feel more for her. He may have stopped himself for whatever reason but if he already is willing to kiss her, who knows what else he is willing to do. I have been through this before and it just doesnt get easier and you lose trust that you can never gain back. But overall its the choice only you can make, if you want to put yourself through heart ache and head aches thinking what hes up to every minute then thats your choice, but why have to worry when you could find someone who truly loves you and only you Momma Hi Guys! This is my first out reach to Greg and Dre in all the years Ive listened. I need some advice on if I should approach a situation or just leave it. I have currently work at my job for 8 years in June. There have been some highs and many lows. There is in-your face favoritism. Our company is small and well known. My self and 2 others on my team have trained a new person. Almost a whole year later this person is still making mistakes that she is not being reprimanded for. We are constantly picking up her slack. Stuff that we get done she can not. She is a few years older than us, and she doesn’t respect the employee rules that are in the handbook. This woman is not a bad person, but she thinks rules do not apply to her. She doesn’t help out as a team, and now they are separating her from team duties because her responsibilities are getting too over whelming. My other 2 co-workers are getting to the point where they are politely mentioning to supervisors their feelings but the direct supervisor doesn’t follow up because she “busy” with more important things. When we have tried to mention something to this slacking co-work she gets irritated and says she will have to confirm with a boss. WTH? Between myself and the other 2 co-workers we have been working her over 13 years! Are we being jealous? Are we nit-picking? All we want is for all of us to be on the same playing field. I don’t mind helping a team player. I do mind helping someone that is quick to pass the buck Joy Makena Hi Guys ! I been with this guys for four years and he ask me to marry five time but he hasn’t put a ring on it so what should I do wait for him please help me with this I do love him a lot I will do anything for him shannon Burch Maybe he wants an answer before actually spending money and being rejected Joy Makena I told him the answer Michael bravo If you truly love him then a ring doesn’t matter. it’s a physical object. If he shows you how much you love you by treating you right and showing you love then that’s all that matters a ring is nothing but a physical object Danielle i think u need to wait and see were the relationship goes for 1 more year he may pop the Question shannon Burch My name is Shannon and I just need some advice from anyone. I do my best to achieve basic goals in my life to provide for my daughter and be a positive role model. I was with her father for about 11 years and I realized that he needed to get his life together so I left him. Unfortunately I’m new to the dating seen due to the fact that I basically was with him half my life. It has been not only scary but hard to adjust to the fact that it seems I can only attract jerks or men who only want sex. I have my BA Degree, I work full time, pay my own bills, live in my own place with my daughter, and have my own car. Why is it so hard to find someone that sees me more as wife material rather than a booty call? I just feel hopeless and unlovable anymore I know I’m not ugly and I have a great personality so I just don’t understand. brittany girl you are not the only one that has this problem. I am going through the same thing. i am trying to get over my boyfriend but all i seem to be attracting are men who only want sex. But all my friends have been telling me that when you least expect it he will come. You will find someone when it is time. Dont go out looking for them because that is when you get assholes. I know its hard and you dont want to wait but it just takes time. Focus on your daughter Julie N Ednino I have 2 boys that my husband and i took custody of when we where only 4 months into our relationship!! When u love some one you will do anything so i went through with it an stood by his side the whole way. Its 3 years later and they are ours for good!! I love them like my own kids & now we have a baby girl !! Their favorite movie is cars because my oldest son is autistic and cars is his concert !! My youngest loves matter lol to die for!! So their movie they chose is CARS!!! We called & have about 200 comment on it live stream lol!! FINGERS CROSSED MY KIDS DESERVE IT!! If not happy for who ever wins & have fun???? Danielle i want to have a shout out for El Diamante High School In Visalia ca for Battle for the Sattle week I wish my School to have a good luck and to bring the Sattle Back home brittany HI everyone! I have been with this guy for 9 months. He is my first love, my first everything. Recently he has been acting very different. He has been short tempered, “tired of how i am jealous”, and when we went to disneyland he was rude with me he wouldnt say anything and he had the same bored expression on his face. He has asked me to change and stop being so jealous, but i havent changed the way i have been since we first got together. Me saying he couldnt hang out with girls before wasnt a problem, so why is it now? Please help me i am on the verge of breaking up with him very soon maybe even over the weekend. S.O.S brittany hey guys! its brittany, so me and my boyfriend had a long talk face to face yesterday about how we both need to work on ourselves and how it would be best if we break up. we spent the whole day laughing and crying in each others arms. We agreed that no matter what we would have eachothers back and be best friends. so if he gets a girlfriend i support him and if i get a boyfriend he supports me. But now im really missing him and when we text we still say i love you and call eachother babe. we are not really broken up if we do this. How should i go about this situation. Please help me out. Also i love the show i listen every morning Larisa Palacios-Gomez Hey guys, I have a dilemma. I have this ex been on and off for 3 years. Recently broke it off and now pursuing a new guy. However, my ex and I decided to try and be friends again. However I’m startubg to regret that decision. What should I do? Anon Hey guys, I’m not sure if you have to be a certain age to post, but I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 16 year old girl and my parents recently broke up. They have been dating for 17 years. It hasn’t been 6 months and my mom has been in a relationship with 3 guys. I’ve talked to her but things aren’t working out. I feel as if she is going too fast and although I want her to be happy, I want her to take her time. On top of that, she constantly asks my father to pay some of her bills and brings me and my little sister into their arguements. I’ve talked to both my mom and dad and told them I dont want to be in the middle of it. I am getting tired of her constantly bringing different guys home and starting arguements with my dad. I understand I am young and won’t understand the real world ( as my mom says) but I understand that a child shouldn’t go through all of this. It is breaking me apart and I do not know what to do. Thank you and have a nice day.